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MATURITY

Ann Landers was a popular columnist who was read by millions all over the world. Almost every day sacks of mail were delivered to her from people who came from different parts of the globe, no matter what their age, status or profession might be. Some of the letters dealt with serious problems, others with simpler ones, and each was answered in a straightforward, matter-of-fact way. Whether the problem was largeor small, Ann Landers gave it her undivided attention. She realized that each problem was of utmost importance to the letter  writer and that a reply was needed. One thing that was common in most of these letters was that the writer had a problem with which he could not cope. And, in many cases, the inability to cope was the result of immaturity.

Reaching the oge of sighteen-in many countries the official age for adulthood-is no guarantee of maturity. Maturity, according to Ann Landers, is not regulated by the calendar. In other words, what she was saying was that a number of us have never grown up, that countless individuals who may be financial and professional giants are, in many replaced his thumb with a cigar is no proof that he is grown.

Here are some of her definitions of maturity.

A.    MATURITY is the ability to control anger and settle differences without violation or destruction.

B.   MATURITY is patience, the willingness to pass up immediate pleasure in favor of the long term gain.

C.  MATURITY is perseverance, sweating out a project in spite of opposition and discouraging setbacks.

D.    MATURITY is unselfishness, responding to the needs of others.

E.     MATURITY is the capability to face unpleasantness and disappointment without becoming bitter.

F.     MATURITY is humility. A mature person is able to say,’’I am wrong.’’ He is also able to say, ‘’I am sorry.’’ And when he is proved right, he does not have to say,’’I told you so.’’

G.  MATURITY means dependability, integrity, keeping one’s word the immature have excuses for everything. They are chronically tardy, the no-shows, the gutless wonder who fold in a crises. Their lives are a maze of broken promises, unfinished business and former friends.

H.    MATURITY is the ability to live in peace with that which we cannot change.

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In my opinion after read the arfucle about maturity . maturity not only about physecly such as size of bady , age above 17^th but also attitude and character everyone where they can control . Their emotion, speech . Someone who have maturity is man can be responsible about their mistake . someone can’t measure their maturity because who can measure their maturity is other people. Not other people who they unknow but other people such as family and friend other people can’t judge people who not yet have maturity as bad people but they not yet know means from a maturity for every one.

The consequenty, the personality which good must be to do since early, so when adult can have good association, because if not to do since early then will appear become people with bad personality, such as not have respectful, and care with other people, egoist, and etc .

So, you  must be make better your  personality from now, yesterday and next future.